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A Spiritual Inventory of Family Life

There are a lot of issues in the African-American family and community that keep us from "coming fully" to the Lord and really partaking of His spiritual bounty. Either we're too busy trying to make "ends meet," or keeping our businesses afloat; or we’re worrying about the safety of our children or the security of our jobs. Somewhere in between, we may mull over our spiritual destiny and wonder whether God is pleased with our mundane worship and our stale routine. But, our lives are so stretched across miles and minutes that we can never find the space and time to take spiritual inventory. We move so fast and do so much that we never have time to "stop and smell the flowers."

Well, just like it's important to take inventory of physical belongings for insurance records (in case of a robbery or theft); we must also take spiritual inventory of our family's spiritual needs to refer to whenever we have to confront the enemy. He always come to "steal, kill and destroy." Without doubt, Satan can steal literal days, kill personal dreams, and destroy family time! He's a spiritual robber, liar and murderer!

Family.orgPerhaps it would be helpful to take a quick inventory of the "spiritual items" that reflect a healthy Christian home. The first time I took spiritual inventory of my family, I wept in godly sorrow. We were lean and lacking in ten (10) critical areas:

  • Christ as HMIC (Head Master In Charge)
  • Individual Bible Reading & Quite Meditation
  • Family Prayer & Devotion Time
  • Corporate Fasting with a Unified Purpose
  • Shared Dinner Meals w/ Stimulating Conversation
  • Family Gatherings & Fun Recreation
  • Marital Intimacy & Periodic Get-a-ways
  • Household Orderliness & Cleanliness
  • Financial Management & Spending Maintenance
  • Sabbath Rest & Reflection

As I looked around, it was obvious that some sort of theft or robbery had invaded our home life. Our house was always disheveled and out of order, bills were strewn about and constantly behind, and our spending was extravagant and out of control. There was little attention given to corporate fasting or family outings and the television served as our live-in babysitter. We were in a spiritual mess! God was letting me know that 'the natural' is the best indicator of 'the spiritual.'

William and I quickly recognized that we didn't need a family therapist; but the Counselor profiled in Isaiah 53. We had to repent and refocus our attention and affection upon the Lord. As a family, we had to learn, all over again, to come closer to the One who knows us best and to trust Him to breathe new life into us individually and corporately. And that's what began to happen. Not over night, but day-by-day unexplainable peace and clearer priorities began to fill our home again.

First, we cut off all electronic noises and opened our Bible in personal study. The Word of God and a weekly Family Night became a non-compromised commitment. William and I learned to take a $20 bill and treat ourselves to what we jokingly coined, "a just-gotta-get-a-way." Our special time would often take place on a Saturday morning. We'd start with breakfast at McDonald's, then travel to Annapolis, Maryland (the closest metropolitan town) to pick up a coveted (used) item or two from the thrift store and end with a midday retreat at Barnes & Noble (browsing through new books and reading "hot off the press" magazines).

This time refreshed us deeply and renewed our affections for the things we loved--even with little bit of money. The natural order gave us a reassuring wink that our spiritual lives had once again become pleasing to our Lord.

From Soul Food and Living Water, by Yolanda Powell and William J. Powell, a Focus on the Family book.

Jesus Paid It All!

Jesus is the only One who can feed our hungry souls and quench our thirsty spirits. He doesn't ask a lot of questions or make immediate demands. Nor does he require an application or I.D. card. Spiritual nourishment flows instantly out of His Being, without cash or credit, to fill up every barren and lacking place--just for the asking!

When ministering God's Word to young children, I (Yolanda) always tell them that the Lord God is the World Greatest Chef and that I'm His waitress! He prepares exactly what each person needs and He does it with succulent flair! All I do is serve each exquisite dish with a servant-heart. And I'm always astonished at the scrumptious dishes He can whip out to replenish the bruised or fortify the weak.

There's a special thrill in receiving an unexpected dinner invitation to your favorite ritzy restaurant from a cherished and "loaded" friend. For one night, you toss the pots and pans in the cupboard and throw fast food to the curb. On this exciting evening, you have the luxury of ordering your favorite appetizer, entrée and dessert from the pricey menu. You feast on fabulous cuisine and enjoy great conversation without worrying about your own cash flow or credit card limits. It's all taken care of-carte blanche! By the time the cappuccino arrives; you are feeling thoroughly satisfied and richly blessed from head to toe.

Times like these don't have to be rare at all, because the True and Living God is our cherished Friend and well-endowed Savior! He always picks up the tab when it comes to spiritual dining. Never forget that we were created to feast on both natural and spiritual food. Our heavenly Father, who formed us in His own image and likeness, knows we need "spiritual nourishment" to sustain our spiritual well being. Jesus taught that, "Man cannot live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God" (Matthew 4:4 KJV).

There is more to you and me than an outer shell. As many Bible teachers explain, humanity was created as a tripartite being with three distinct elements that comprise our makeup. We live in a body (which needs physical food like baked chicken, collard greens and potato salad); we have a mind (that feeds on the intellectual food of books, poetry and technology); but our essence is spirit (requiring the daily, spiritual food of God's Living Word). In order for us to mature in a dynamic relationship with the Lord of Life, we must learn to feast heartily on the sustenance of His Holy Scriptures.

African-American culture is known for its superb soul food recipes, delicious baked cakes and mouth-watering pies. We bring a 'spirit of excellence' to the traditional Soon-As-Church-Is-Over-Sunday-Dinner, Friday-Night-Fish-Fry and Down-Home-Bar-B-Cue. These meals are always prepared well and presented with all the trimmings! Yet, the same expertise and flawless preparation that we bring to "feeding our faces" must also be applied to communing with our God! We can only grow and increase spiritually by learning to "enter in" and "sup" with the Master in His private chambers.

How can we live as the Bride of Christ (fully adorned without spot, wrinkle or blemish) unless daily time in the Word and Prayer has become like breathing, bathing and brushing our teeth? Christ alone is our Soul Sustainer! He is fresh food for the soul and living water for the spirit!

I believe you are an overcomer in Christ. So, as the redeemed of the Lord, "say so" by the way you live out our faith! Lift up your lift head, clean up your house, love your spouse and train your children! Jesus paid your tab and cleared up all your debts. So, don't let anything keep you from accepting His special dinner invitation. You must come boldly and confidently to the Banqueting Table of God! A place is set for you right now. The dinner bell is ringing and a linen card is set with your name on it. Enjoy the splendor of the moment and the special mealtimes the Master has prepared just for you. Simply receive the spiritual nourishment He offers you day by day. It’s time to ‘Come and Dine’ with Him alone.

From Soul Food and Living Water, by Yolanda Powell and William J. Powell, a Focus on the Family book.

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